Looking forward to having a great date night? Our list of “would you rather questions” for your boyfriend or girlfriend are the secret ingredient that you need!
It’s always a great idea to get to know your loved one better, and surprising them with this game will make them smile.
No matter if you’ve been dating for 4 months or 4 years, chances are you still don’t know everything about one another.
Remember that warm and bubbly feeling you had during those first few long night conversations? There’s no reason to keep that emotional goodness as just a memory!
By having quality conversations with your partner again and again, you recapture the magic of the beginning of your relationship.
What’s more, you’re also building the future of your couple life together, growing as individuals in the meantime too.
We believe that relationships can be the most beautiful thing on Earth, if you’re willing to put in the commitment and the time.
However, you don’t have to “work” to make a relationship last. It should feel natural and desirable to spend time with your other half.
The questions below will help you create meaningful moments. If you want even more hours of fun & engaging conversations (potentially endless!), make sure to buy our replayable couple’s card game.
We made it with love, to preserve love.
Would You Rather Questions For Couples List
Tough Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Would you rather lose all your money or all your possessions?
- Would you rather have more free time or a higher salary?
- Would you rather be famous or infamous?
- Would you rather have a superpower or a great money-making skill?
- Would you rather visit the past or travel into the future?
- Would you rather go skiing or swimming?
- Would you rather be a great artist or a renowned scientist?
- Would you rather have an amazing singing voice or be great at playing a musical instrument?
- Would you rather have all of your conversations online or offline?
- Would you rather always be bored or always be super busy?
- Would you rather be respected out of love or fear?
- Would you rather have a short but incredible life or a long but mediocre one?
- Would you rather be super funny or super smart?
- Would you rather have just one huge regret or many smaller regrets?
- Would you rather outlive your parents or your friends?
- Would you rather be an entrepreneur, full-time employee or freelancer?
- Would you rather face the law for a crime or try to hide it and get away?
- Would you rather listen to advice or learn the hard way?
- Would you rather always wake up early, or always go to bed late?
- Would you rather own a common or an exotic pet?
- Would you rather be forever 20 years old, or forever 40 years old?
- Would you rather know how many romantic partners your spouse has had already or not?
- Would you rather embarrass yourself in front of your own family or your significant other’s?
- Would you rather you were always unhappy yourself, or your partner?
Lifestyle Questions For Couples
- Would you rather always be early to meetings and have to wait for others or always be late?
- Would you rather give up eating your favourite food or drinking your favorite beverage?
- Would you rather communicate just by text or just by phone?
- Would you rather have your child be smart or kind?
- Would you rather have a big public wedding or a smaller ceremony just with friends and family?
- Would you rather get brain freeze from ice cream or burn your tongue on hot foods?
- Would you rather drive a train or an airplane?
- Would you rather live in a very cold or very hot country?
- Would you rather take a stroll through a park or a forest?
- Would you rather watch the movie or read the book?
- Would you rather become a book writer or a screenwriter?
- Would you rather live in a world without music or without colors?
- Would you rather always be invisible or have everyone always stare at you?
- Would you rather your mind remained young or your body?
- Would you rather always be overdressed for the occasion or underdressed?
- Would you rather be judged by everyone for how you dress or not being able to stop judging others for how they dress?
- Would you rather be able to travel to any country you want, without having to pay, or have all the money you want, but you couldn’t travel anywhere?
- Would you rather have children of your own, or adopt?
- Would you rather have a very calm pet, or a rowdy one?
- Would you rather live the life of a cat or a tiger?
- Would you rather your spouse was best friends with your boss or with your ex?
- Would you rather live 2 years completely alone and away from society (but with all necessities assured), or always surrounded by people (even in your own home)?
Personality Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Would you rather “leave a legacy” after you’re gone or pass away without being remembered?
- Would you rather be able to only shower in the rain or in lakes?
- Would you rather always be envious of your friends or have them always be envious of you?
- Would you rather play with your pet all day or play with someone else’s pet all day?
- Would you rather always be angry or sad?
- Would you rather be a role model or meet your role models?
- Would you rather be an ace at history or math?
- Would you rather be on TV or the internet?
- Would you rather swim with dolphins or sharks?
- Would you rather visit the North or the South Pole?
- Would you rather be reborn as an animal or an insect?
- Would you rather serenade me or have me serenade you?
- Would you rather be branded a racist even if you weren’t or be a racist but no one knew about it?
- Would you rather always wear perfume or never be able to wear perfume?
- Would you rather dress in a suit every day or dress in pajamas every day?
- Would you rather go for vanilla or chocolate ice cream?
- Would you rather be good at magic tricks or stand-up comedy?
- Would you rather only eat your favorite food for 1 year or not eat it for 2 years?
- Would you rather read people’s minds without wanting to or have your own mind read by others without your permission?
- Would you rather become very rich and annoying, or be poor but a decent person?
- Would you rather marry your partner or live together without tying the knot?
- Would you rather spend your free time alone or with a loved one?
- Would you rather your partner spent a lot of time with their ex, or with your ex?
- Would you rather be seen as attractive or intelligent?
- Would you rather people came to you for sage advice or practical advice?
- Would you rather be known as “failure” even though it’s not true, or as a “successful” individual even though it’s not true?
Unique Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Would you rather be the center of attention or the guy/gal in the corner?
- Would you rather eat sweet or savory foods?
- Would you rather eat something gross or refuse and hurt the feelings of the cook?
- Would you rather go to space or explore the depths of the ocean?
- Would you rather fight a bear or a lion?
- Would you rather collect coins from other countries or stamps?
- Would you rather always tell the truth or always lie?
- Would you rather have backup money just for emergencies or spend it all but have constant fun?
- Would you rather have your partner disliked by your parents or your friends?
- Would you rather surprise your partner, or always be told what they want?
- Would you rather others were always jealous of you, or get along with everyone?
- Would you rather always be punctual, or always be late?
- Would you rather argue your point forever, or give up even if you were right?
- Would you rather like to always have to ask for help, or never be able to ask for help?
- Would you rather be a power couple that looks to show how great they are, or a modest one that’s looking out for their friends?
- Would you rather try to date a famous or rich person?
- Would you rather be stuck in the elevator with someone you really hate, or alone?
- Would you rather get along with your significant other’s siblings or parents?
Passions Questions For Couples
- Would you rather attend a baseball game or a basketball game?
- Would you rather pick up a common sport but be bad at it, or an unpopular sport but be very good at it?
- Would you rather play a video game alone or with friends?
- Would you rather be forced into an extreme and dangerous sport or have a very boring activity happen regularly?
- Would you rather go to a horse race or a dog show?
- Would you rather learn to play an instrument or work on your singing voice?
- Would you rather cook dinner or wash the dishes?
- Would you rather spend your time with younger people or older people than you?
- Would you rather go for a quiet picnic in the woods, or a fancy and expensive dinner?
- Would you rather your partner knew your deepest intimate desires or not?
- Would you rather have unhealthy but very exciting hobbies, or healthy hobbies that don’t bring you much joy?
- Would you rather learn how to ski or how to snowboard?
- Would you rather learn the local language of a remote country before travelling, or just go in blind and see if you can handle yourself?
Wedding Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Would you rather your best friend or your brother be the best man at your wedding?
- Would you rather your sister be the maid of honor, or someone else?
- Would you rather have a big wedding with a lot of guests, or a smaller event with only close friends and family?
- Would you rather your wedding had an expensive and large menu, or a smaller menu with dishes you particularly enjoy?
- Would you rather have a more conventional wedding (wedding + reception), or celebrate the occasion on the beach/in the forest/somewhere special?
- Would you rather be very nervous for your wedding, or not nervous at all?
- Would you rather your wedding be remembered as fun & exciting or grand & luxurious?
- Would you rather know your partner’s biggest flaw before the wedding or after?
- Would you rather choose to go to your best friend’s wedding and enjoy yourself, or to a relative’s wedding out of obligation?
Family Questions For Couples
- Would you rather raise your child to be independent or fit in with the group?
- Would you rather have a family that’s very religious or not religious at all?
- Would you rather include your personal spirituality in the life of your family or keep it as a separate thing?
- Would you rather be involved in your child’s education or be a working parent?
- Would you rather your child had a lot of cousins or a few siblings?
- Would you rather spend time with your mother-in-law or father-in-law?
- Would you rather spend Christmas with your own parents or with your partner’s?
- Would you rather celebrate a lot of occasions as a family, or keep large gatherings for only a 1 – 2 times a year?
- Would you rather raise your child in a foreign but more developed country, or in your own country?
- Would you rather your child was very popular in school, or appreciated at work?
Intimate Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Would you rather your partner was very experienced in the bedroom or not at all?
- Would you rather be “teased” or do the “teasing”?
- Would you rather be more dominant during sex or let go of control?
- Would you rather be focused on being romantic or being dirty?
- Would you rather try roleplaying and other types of acting, or keep it pretty standard?
- Would you rather have your phone filled with nudes or not receive any nudes at all?
- Would you rather plan out intimate nights or have them happen naturally?
- Would you rather be the one doing the cheating or be cheated on by your partner?
- Would you rather receive flowers or a box of chocolate?
- Would you rather try new things in the bedroom or stick to what you like?
- Would you rather come home to your partner being dressed in an alluring fashion or very stylish?
- Would you rather be caught in the act by your parents, your friends or your child?
- Would you rather have sex 3 times a day or 3 times a month?
Keep The Conversation Going
If you want to spend even more quality hours with your significant other, here are 150 questions to ask each other. We’re sure they’ll help you connect on a deeper level.
But, why stop there? You should aim to improve communication in your relationship each and every day. Better Topics is a fun & replayable couple’s game that we designed and created.
We looked at our own marriage, and began brainstorming about how we could make it even better. Better Topics is made with love, to preserve love. Available both as a free mobile app and as physical decks (we ship worldwide!).
