Skip to content Skip to footer

120 Romantic Questions to Use in Your Couple Life

Looking for romantic questions for couples to ask your partner? 

You’re in the right place as this is what we’re going to talk about today! 

Romance is all about keeping the spark of love lit. It’s about wanting to know your partner better and better each and every day.

Sure, the “honeymoon” stage of the relationship eventually passes, but those butterflies in your belly transform into something even more wonderful.

Something that you can sustain and improve with quality romantic questions for couples.

You see, once you’ve been in a relationship for a while (or you get married), you can fall into routines. This can be detrimental for romance. You get used to one another as close friends or roommates, rather than lovers.

However, if you reserve a few minutes a day to just sit down and talk with each other, you’ll see that “signal flare” of love reignite.

But what to talk about, you ask? No worries, we’ve got you covered. We know it can be daunting or challenging to just sit down with each other and…talk.

You’d normally watch a movie together, play a game, share some memes to have a laugh. While great, these activities don’t really give the two of you an opportunity to get to know each other better.

So, find 15 minutes when your busy schedules aren’t so cluttered, and start engaging in better topics! Your couple life will benefit from it and bloom into an even more wonderful stage.

Romantic Questions for Your Loved One

  1. What’s one thing I do that really makes you feel loved?
  2. What does the perfect date night look like for you?
  3. Which of my qualities do you love most?
  4. What’s one meal you’d like to have for a romantic night?
  5. Is there a specific music genre that “gets you going”?
  6. Do you think there’s a secret to staying happy in a relationship?
  7. Is there a romantic movie you want us to watch together?
  8.  What date night atmosphere would you be most happy with?
  9. Do you think physical touch is a big part of romance? Moreover, what gestures in particular do you find romantic?
  10. Do you think any of our friends have a great couple life? Should we follow their example?
  11. What’s the first thing you thought about me when we met?
  12. Where would you choose to go for a night out? A fancy restaurant? A stroll in the park? A concert? Or, maybe you’d prefer if we stayed home and cooked something nice together?
  13. What’s one thing you really like about me, physically speaking?
  14. What do you think is my favorite thing about you?
  15. If we had all the money in the world, what’s the first thing you’d want us to do together?
  16. Ever think of me when a song comes up on your playlist?
  17. Do you think you know all there is to know about me? Would you like to ask me literally anything?
  18. Can you describe me using just 3 words?
  19. Do you think we had a great first kiss or was it mediocre?
  20.  How would you describe being in love? Is there something in particular you feel?
  21. Do you think I look good in my favorite outfits?
  22. If you could only choose 1 cuisine for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  23. Do you think our relationship is lacking in something specific?
  24. What made you think of me as more than a friend?
  25. Do you think we have a lot of fun together?
  26. Did you confess to your first crush? Who were they? How did it go?
  27. Have you ever had your heart broken?
  28. What’s one life lesson you’d pass on to the next generation?
  29. Have your thoughts about relationships remained constant throughout your life? Any surprising revelations that you didn’t see coming?
  30. Do you believe in staying friends after breaking up?
  31. Do you have any fears or phobias that you find strange?
  32. Did you like your parent’s cooking growing up?
  33. Is our couple life the way you imagined it before getting together?
  34. Is your life going as you thought it would when you were a teenager?
  35. Do you have any family or cultural traditions that you’d want me to follow too?
  36. What’s your opinion about yourself? Anything you’d like to change?
  37. Answer quickly: what’s your best quality?
  38. Don’t think about it: why’d you choose me over others?
  39. Have your previous partners ever been unfaithful? 
  40. Which one of us is a more trusting person?

    romantic questions

  41. Do you think I try seeing the good in people or not?
  42. Do you like it when I give you back rubs? 
  43. Are you satisfied with our intimate life?
  44. Do you want us to try something new in bed?
  45. Do you think you’re a jealous person? Am I a jealous person? What do you think about jealousy overall?
  46. Were you one of the “cool kids” in school?
  47. What does romance mean to you?
  48. Did you go through a “phase” growing up?
  49. Do you see us having kids? If yes, how many? Is this topic a deal breaker?
  50. Do you actively seek to be respected or admired by others?
  51. Do you think I care about how I look?
  52. Are the opinions of other people important to me?
  53. When do you think I’m at my sexiest?
  54. What’s more important: being smart or being a kind person?
  55. Do you think I make wise decisions?
  56. Am I ever unattractive to you? Why?
  57. Do you think I deal with anger in a healthy way? What’s your way of dealing with anger?
  58. Which personality trait is an instant turn-off for you?
  59. What should a person have to be considered a friend?
  60. Do you see us owning property together? Is that important?
  61. Is taking risks worth it?
  62. Are you a gambling person or do you prefer keeping it nice and steady?
  63. Singing or dancing? What sounds more fun?
  64. What superpower would you choose? No restrictions!
  65. Do I make you truly happy?
  66. Do you believe in luck? Did we get together out of chance?
  67. Do you think I’d lend money to a friend if they asked?
  68. Should we have a joint bank account or use our money separately?
  69. What do you daydream about most often?
  70. What’s one thing that makes our relationship unique from others?
  71. What do you enjoy doing most when we’re together?
  72. Do you have a sexual fantasy you’d like us to do?
  73. Is morning sex something you’d be into?
  74. What does “great sex” mean for you?
  75. Should we experiment with sex toys?
  76. Do you think some parts of our relationship should stay just between us (no telling to friends or family)?
  77. What are your thoughts on cliche movies or very cheesy ones? Do you want to watch one together?
  78. Do you think I’m a good driver? Would you say you’re a good driver?
  79. Are you into any historical eras? Would you like us to attend a fair or share this interest?
  80. Do you think we’re like any pop culture couple?
  81. Do things happen for a reason, or is it endless chaos?
  82. Am I an optimist or a pessimist? Do you like that about me?
  83. Are love songs romantic or annoying?
  84. Do you think we have a “love story”? How would you sum it up?
  85. If we could live forever, would you choose to spend that forever with me?
  86. Do you believe in astrology? Did you check if we’re compatible in that way?
  87. Are “white lies” acceptable?
  88. How important are truth and honesty for you?
  89. Do you have a personal goal you haven’t told me about?
  90. Do you think I’m good with money? What about yourself?
  91. Is there a special place you’d want to show me one day?
  92. Do you prefer it when we text or talk over the phone?
  93. Hot weather or really cold weather? Pick one of the extremes!
  94. Do you think you have a flaw which I wouldn’t be ok with?
  95. Do you have any curiosities about me that you’re actively avoiding?
  96. Is kissing or hugging more intimate for you?
  97. Is it ok if we have good friends of an opposite gender?
  98. What should we improve in our relationship?
  99. Are you fine with fixing imperfections in our couple life even if it takes a long time?
  100. Do you think our relationship is similar to that of your parents? Is that a good or a bad thing?
  101.  Should we try doing something different on special occasions?
  102. Are flowers, chocolate and gifts just for Valentine’s and birthdays, or are they something you’d like to receive more often?
  103. Do you trust me implicitly, no matter the context?
  104. Am I making you feel protected and cared for in our relationship?
  105. Do you like hanging out with my friends? Do you feel like you’re my priority when we’re with other people?
  106. Would you see me in a completely different light if I were to do something specific?
  107.  Do you like my family? Do you think I like your family?
  108. What’s the most important lesson about relationships that you got from your parents?
  109. Have you ever read books about relationship advice?
  110.  Did you use to think that relationships were like in Disney movies?
  111.  What do you think about us owning a business together? Do you see yourself as an entrepreneur?
  112.  What should our retirement look like? Should we change cities, etc?
  113.  What’s your favorite memory we made together?
  114.  Before we started dating, did any previous significant other leave an impact on you?
  115.  Did you “experiment” in college?
  116.  Do you think you’re a “girly girl”/”manly man”?
  117.  Do you think I ever hold back from you? Emotionally, cognitively, etc.
  118.  Why did you start looking for a romantic partner?
  119.  Can you see yourself living alone?
  120. Do you ever feel like you have to fit in when you’re with me?

Looking for More Advice?

Relationships can be tough to navigate at times, but if you really love each other, you owe it to yourselves to try. If you’re looking for more topics to discuss with your partner, start with our 150 relationship questions.

After that, take your couple life to the next level with our fun & replayable card game for couples, Better Topics. It’s a classic tabletop card game (apps are also available), but made specifically for significant others.

Each turn, one partner asks a question, and the other one answers to the best of their ability. No “what’s your favorite color” types of questions here though!

You can expect meaningful conversations and constant quality communication that’ll actually help you grow your relationship.


Our mission is to help couples experience more love, joy, and connection.

© Copyright Better Topics 2024.  Design & Web Development by Wesrom Corporation

+1 840 841 25 69