How well do you know your partner?
Like, really know them, not just their Starbucks order or their favorite pizza topping.
Sure, those are cute, but they won’t save you when they’re crying at 2 a.m. over a random childhood memory or debating why Batman is cooler than Iron Man (he’s not, but whatever).
If you think you know them like the back of your hand, buckle up.
I’m about to challenge that.
Spoiler: It’s going to be fun, a little weird, and full of laughs.
Skip the Basic Stuff, We’re Going Deeper
Knowing their favorite color is fine.
Knowing their irrational fear of geese?
That’s gold.
The surface stuff is easy.
Anyone can memorize a favorite movie or birthday.
But how about:
What’s the one thing that always makes them cry? (Hint: It’s probably not what you think.)
Which fictional character do they secretly believe they are? (I bet they’ve got one, and it’s probably embarrassing.)
If they were a vegetable, which one would they choose?
And why?
Let’s take it even further.
What’s their “weird food” combo? (Peanut butter on pickles? Cereal with orange juice? The stuff that makes you question your relationship.)
What do they secretly judge other people for? (Crocs? Pineapple on pizza? Not signaling in traffic?)
If they could relive one day in their life, what would it be? (Warning: their answer might make you tear up.)
And don’t forget the really random things:
Which childhood toy do they secretly wish they still had?
If they could only save one pair of shoes in a fire, which ones would they grab?
What’s their go-to dance move when no one’s watching?
These questions aren’t just for laughs (although there will be plenty of those).
They peel back layers of your partner’s personality that might surprise you.
It’s these little details that remind you how unique they are, and why you chose them in the first place.
The deeper you dig, the more you realize there’s always something new to learn.
And that’s the fun part.
Because no matter how long you’ve been together, there’s always another quirky fact waiting to pop out.
Like why they have an oddly strong opinion about squirrels.
Or why they always root for the villain in movies.
This isn’t about memorizing trivia, it’s about finding joy in the little things that make them them.
Those are the moments that matter.
And trust me, the next time they do their go-to dance move in the kitchen, you’ll appreciate it even more.
The Weird Trivia Test
Here’s where things get spicy: Have you ever asked your partner what their go-to karaoke song is?
What about the most embarrassing thing they’ve ever Googled?
Or the weirdest lie they told as a kid?
Let’s level up with even weirder trivia:
If they could swap lives with their pet for a day, what would they do first?
What’s the one thing they’d hoard in an apocalypse? (Spoiler: It’s probably not what you think. Who needs 200 cans of baked beans?)
What’s the strangest superstition they secretly believe in? (Stepping on cracks, anyone?)
Push the boundaries further:
Which celebrity do they irrationally dislike, and why? (Everyone has one, and the reasons are often hilariously petty.)
What’s the one chore they would absolutely never do, even for a million dollars?
If they could rename themselves, what name would they pick? (Imagine your partner introducing themselves as “Blaze” or “Princess Sparkles.”)
You can also dive into the purely hypothetical:
If aliens landed tomorrow and offered to take them on an intergalactic road trip, would they go?
If they could live in any era, dinosaurs, medieval times, 1980s, which would they pick, and what’s their survival strategy?
What animal do they think they could beat in a fight? (Their confidence here might shock—and concern—you.)
These questions are more than just fun, they reveal the quirky, hidden sides of your partner you never knew existed.
You might discover they’ve secretly planned their zombie apocalypse team or that they’re terrified of koalas because “their claws are freakishly long.”
Here’s the best part: the answers will probably make you laugh until your stomach hurts.
Or they’ll spark an epic debate (like why anyone would ever think they could fight a kangaroo and win).
Either way, you’ll bond over the ridiculousness of it all.
So grab a notepad, ask the questions, and prepare to be surprised.
Who knows?
You might just learn your partner has a hidden talent for making dolphin noises or a lifelong dream of opening a waffle truck called “Waffly Good.”
Are You Speaking the Same Love Language?
Everyone talks about the five love languages, but let’s get real.
Those are just the basics.
Your partner’s true love language probably includes a mix of things they’ll never admit out loud, until you catch on.
Here’s what I mean:
Do they “casually” clean your coffee cup while doing the dishes but secretly want you to notice?
That’s love, dish-soap style.
Is their way of saying “I love you” through weird little acts, like untangling your phone charger or always filling up your water bottle?
Do they show affection by offering to hold your bag in public, even when it weighs 50 pounds and is mostly diapers and snacks?
Let’s not forget the subtle-but-sassy love languages:
The way they share their fries even though you swore you weren’t hungry. (We all know you lied.)
Laughing at your jokes even when they’re objectively terrible. (Because let’s face it, dad jokes aren’t for everyone.)
Watching your favorite show, even when they hate it, and pretending to care about why Monica and Rachel switched apartments.
Then there’s the ultimate love test: food.
Do they save you the last bite of dessert without you asking?
Or offer to split their chocolate bar?
That’s soulmate material!
Do they remember your overly complicated coffee order without writing it down?
That’s a caffeinated “I love you.”
Sometimes, their love language is super specific:
Maybe it’s texting you memes throughout the day.
Or remembering to charge your phone because “you always forget.”
Or quietly replacing your shampoo because they noticed it was running low.
And then there are the hilariously relatable love languages:
Arguing about where to order takeout but always caving to your choice in the end.
Staying calm when you can’t decide what to wear (even though you’ve already tried on 12 outfits).
Rolling their eyes but still helping you hunt down your missing sock for the third time this week.
Recognizing these quirky, hidden “relationship dialects” is a game-changer.
It’s not just about how you want to be loved, but how they express it.
You might realize they’ve been showing love in their own way all along, through snacks, silent sacrifices, and their endless patience with your love of cheesy rom-coms.
The trick is to learn their unique love language, no matter how weird or random it seems.
When you do, you’ll start noticing the little ways they show up for you every day.
And trust me, nothing feels better than realizing your partner’s love language is as special (and hilariously specific) as they are.
Can You Handle Their Drama Style?
How does your partner handle drama?
Because, let’s be honest, every relationship has its moments.
The key is knowing if your partner is the “storm out of the room” type or the “let’s quietly stew for hours” kind of person.
Start by asking yourself:
Do they prefer to hash things out immediately, or do they need a day (or three) to calm down?
Are they the kind of person who sends long, paragraph-filled texts in an argument, or are they masters of the dreaded one-word reply? (“K.” is a dangerous territory.)
And here’s the fun part: What’s their go-to conflict quirk?
Do they pace the room dramatically like they’re starring in a courtroom TV show?
Or do they have a “fight face” that instantly gives them away, no matter how hard they’re trying to play it cool?
Do they sigh loudly every 30 seconds, clearly wanting you to ask, “What’s wrong?”
Now, let’s talk about the infamous “I’m fine.”
You know it.
They know it.
The whole world knows it.
“I’m fine” almost never means fine.
It means you’ve entered a dangerous game of emotional charades.
If they say it, proceed with caution, and maybe snacks. Snacks help.
Don’t forget to factor in their “silent treatment” threshold.
Some people can barely make it 10 minutes before cracking, while others are Olympic-level pros.
If your partner opts for the silent treatment, you might want to break the ice with a ridiculous meme or their favorite dessert. (Because honestly, who can stay mad over cake?)
Then there’s the “avoidance artist”: the person who pretends everything’s fine by diving into random tasks.
Suddenly, they’re cleaning the baseboards or alphabetizing the spice rack.
Sure, the house looks great, but it’s probably time to talk.
For the more dramatic types, prepare for the exaggerated sighs, the wild hand gestures, and maybe even a pillow throw or two.
If this is your partner, lean into it.
Counter their drama with humor (carefully!) or let them vent until the fire burns out.
Finally, there’s the “calm debater.”
They stay composed, list facts, and somehow make you feel like you’re being interviewed on a news show.
While this might sound ideal, it can also be frustrating when you’re the one feeling emotional.
If this is your partner’s style, don’t be afraid to let them know when you need them to step out of logic mode and meet you in feelings land.
The real secret?
Learn to adapt to their drama style while staying true to your own.
Maybe they need space, and you need reassurance.
Maybe they want to shout, and you need a calm conversation.
Finding the balance isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it!
Plus, let’s be real, some of their drama quirks will probably make you laugh once the dust settles. (Remember the pillow throw? Iconic.)
At the end of the day, arguments are inevitable.
But understanding how your partner deals with conflict, and how you can navigate it together, will make your relationship stronger.
And hey, if all else fails, just remind them how ridiculous they look when they’re fake-cleaning the baseboards.
That usually does the trick.
Time for the Wildcard Questions
Here’s where things get wild (and, frankly, hilarious).
These wildcard questions will make you laugh, cringe, and possibly question everything you thought you knew about your partner.
Trust me, you’ll learn more in five minutes of asking these than in five years of casual “What’s your favorite movie?” conversations.
Let’s start simple:
If they could rob a bank and not get caught, would they? (Follow-up: What’s the first thing they’d buy with the money?)
What’s their guilty pleasure TV show? (If they say they don’t have one, they’re lying. Everyone has one. Everyone.)
Would they survive a zombie apocalypse, or would they immediately try to make friends with the zombies?
Now, crank up the ridiculousness:
If they had to live as a barn animal for a year, which one would they pick? (And why is it always a goat?)
What’s their strategy for winning a game show where they have to survive on nothing but marshmallows and duct tape?
If they woke up tomorrow as a superhero, what would their completely useless superpower be? (I’m betting it’s something like “perfectly folding fitted sheets.”)
Dive deeper into the “why are you like this?” category:
If they could erase one celebrity from history, who would it be? (The pettier the answer, the better.)
What’s the one thing they’d ban if they became supreme ruler of the world? (Crocs? Baby shark remixes? People who chew loudly?)
What’s the strangest food they’d eat if there was no judgment? (Ketchup on spaghetti? Chips dipped in ice cream? The possibilities are horrifying.)
Then hit them with the real mind-benders:
If they had to spend the rest of their life as a ghost, where would they haunt and why?
If they could only speak in one movie quote for the rest of their life, which one would it be? (And yes, “I’ll be back” is fair game.)
If aliens landed tomorrow and invited them to leave Earth forever, what’s the one Earth thing they’d insist on bringing?
And for the ultimate curveball:
If they had to sing one song to save their life, what would it be? (The wrong answer here is anything by Mariah Carey.)
What’s the weirdest item they’d try to barter with in a post-apocalyptic world? (Because, let’s face it, nobody’s taking your Beanie Baby collection.)
If they could time travel but had to stay in the past forever, what era would they pick, and how long would they survive without Wi-Fi?
These questions are a goldmine for discovering the quirky, unexpected sides of your partner.
Some answers will make you laugh so hard you cry.
Others will leave you staring at them like, “Who are you?”
Either way, you’ll bond over the ridiculousness and probably walk away with some inside jokes for life.
Pro tip: Turn this into a game night activity or a road trip distraction.
Write down your guesses for their answers before they respond.
Compare notes.
Laugh (or argue) about how wildly wrong, or scarily accurate, you were.
And hey, if they admit they’d barter with a bag of gummy worms in the apocalypse, you’ve just discovered a new level of weirdness to love.
Knowing vs. Growing
Here’s the thing: knowing your partner is great, but it’s just the start.
Relationships aren’t museums where you put everything on display and call it done.
They’re like gardens, you’ve got to keep watering, pruning, and occasionally pulling out the weeds (metaphorical or otherwise).
It’s not just about what you know about your partner now.
It’s about staying curious and growing together over time.
Think about it: Do you know how they’ve changed since you first met?
People aren’t static.
Their dreams, fears, and even their favorite snacks evolve.
Maybe they loved thrillers when you started dating, but now they’re all about cozy rom-coms. (Yes, even the ones with cheesy holiday plots.)
Knowing your partner means staying tuned in as they grow and shift.
Here’s a fun way to think about it:
Imagine your partner is a Netflix show with infinite seasons.
Sure, you’ve seen the pilot and maybe the first few seasons, but every new “episode” brings surprises.
Who knew they’d develop a sudden obsession with true crime documentaries or decide they really care about composting?
Growth is also about learning how to tackle life’s curveballs together.
When things get tough, new jobs, babies, moving houses, or just the chaos of everyday life, do you support each other?
Do you adapt?
Knowing your partner is understanding what makes them tick, but growing with your partner is figuring out how to keep ticking in sync, even when life throws you off rhythm.
And here’s the secret sauce: curiosity.
Ask them random questions on a Tuesday afternoon, just because.
Check in on their goals and dreams, even if it feels like you already know the answers. (You might be surprised!)
Notice the small things, like how they’ve started adding cinnamon to their coffee or reading before bed instead of doomscrolling.
These little changes tell a bigger story.
Growth also means laughing together through the awkward bits.
Maybe you didn’t know they were a terrible dancer until they tried to learn TikTok moves with you.
Or that they panic when faced with assembling IKEA furniture.
These moments aren’t just funny, they’re opportunities to bond and grow as a team.
The beauty of growing together is that it keeps things fresh.
It keeps you curious, engaged, and always learning something new about the person you thought you already knew inside and out.
Because let’s face it: even if you think you’ve mastered your partner’s quirks, there’s always another layer to uncover.
Who knows?
Maybe in five years, you’ll discover they’ve secretly been planning a road trip to visit every weird roadside attraction in the country. (And honestly, that sounds kind of amazing.)
So, knowing your partner is like having a map.
But growing with them?
That’s the adventure.
And the best part?
You’re in it together, laughing, learning, and loving through all the plot twists.
Conclusion
So, how well do you really know your partner?
Whether you nailed every quirky detail or found a few surprises along the way, the journey to understanding each other never truly ends.
The secret to a great relationship isn’t just knowing, it’s growing together, staying curious, and finding joy in the little things that make your partner uniquely them.
And if you’re looking for the perfect way to level up your communication and connection, the Better Topics Card Game for Couples is a must-try.
Packed with fun, meaningful, and repeatable questions, it’s designed to spark deeper conversations, create unforgettable bonding moments, and keep things playful.
The best part?
You can replay it endlessly, so the fun, and the insights, never stop.
Ready to take your relationship to the next level?
Grab the Better Topics Card Game, pour your favorite drinks, and dive into a game night that’s as fun as it is meaningful.
Because when you laugh, talk, and grow together, you’re building a love that lasts.
Now, go forth and test your knowledge.
May the odds, and the karaoke answers, be ever in your favor.
