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Aura Colors: Why Your Ex Was Probably a Dark Cloud

Aura colors are like personality tests but way less boring. 

They show your energy, your mood, and why people either love or avoid you. 

Ever met someone who just felt off? 

That’s their aura screaming at you. 

Maybe your ex had the energy of a haunted attic. 

Or maybe your best friend glows like a human sunrise. 

Aura colors explain it all.

What Even Is an Aura?

An aura is your personal energy bubble. 

Science hasn’t fully backed it, but let’s be honest, neither has astrology, and we still check our horoscopes religiously. 

Your aura shifts with your emotions, thoughts, and whether or not you’ve had coffee. 

Some people shine bright. 

Others radiate the energy of a traffic jam.

Think of it like Wi-Fi. 

It’s invisible, but it’s definitely there. 

Some people have full bars, radiating warmth and confidence. 

Others have weak signals, making you want to walk away mid-conversation. 

Ever felt drained just being around someone? 

That’s their aura sucking the life out of you like an emotional vacuum. 

On the flip side, some people feel like a warm hug before they even say a word. 

That’s their aura wrapping you up like a cozy blanket.

Auras also change throughout the day. 

Wake up feeling like a goddess? 

Your aura is probably glowing. 

Stuck in traffic while running late? 

That same aura now resembles a thunderstorm. 

And if you’re dealing with a toxic ex or a soul-sucking job, don’t be surprised if your aura looks like a broken streetlight. 

Energy is fluid, and so is your aura color.

Some people claim to see auras naturally. 

Others learn to do it with practice. 

And then there’s the rest of us, staring at a white wall, squinting, and wondering if our eyes are playing tricks on us. 

But even if you can’t see aura colors, you can feel them. 

Trust your gut! 

If someone’s presence makes you feel like you need a nap, their aura is probably one step away from a blackout.

How to See Aura Colors Without a Crystal Ball

You don’t need magic powers. 

You just need good lighting, patience, and a friend who won’t judge you. 

Stare at their head against a white wall. 

Keep looking. 

Blink a few times. 

If you see a glow, congrats, you’re now a part-time aura reader. 

If you see nothing, try again later. 

Or accept that your friend might just have the personality of dry toast.

If staring at your friends feels weird, try looking at yourself. 

Stand in front of a mirror with a plain background. 

Relax your eyes and focus on the space around your head and shoulders. 

Don’t try too hard, or your vision will blur, and you’ll just end up questioning your eyesight. 

A faint glow or color may appear. 

If nothing happens, it doesn’t mean you don’t have an aura. 

It just means your third eye is still on vacation.

Some people claim that squinting helps. 

Others say it’s best to look slightly past the person instead of directly at them. 

If that sounds complicated, try an easier trick, rub your hands together for a few seconds, then pull them apart slowly. 

You might notice a thin layer of energy between them, like invisible taffy. 

That’s your aura flexing for you.

Certain times make auras easier to see. 

Dim lighting works best, like right before sunset or in a softly lit room. 

After meditation, auras tend to be stronger. 

If someone just finished a workout, their aura might be practically buzzing. 

And if someone is emotionally drained, their aura may look weaker, almost faded.

One fun way to practice is at social gatherings. 

Pay attention to how people feel when they walk into a room. 

That burst of energy from an extrovert? 

Probably a bright aura. 

That one person who makes everything awkward just by existing? 

Their aura might be a murky mess. 

You don’t have to see aura colors to sense them, your instincts already do most of the work.

Aura Colors and What They Say About Your Love Life

Red Aura: Passion or Walking Red Flag?

A red aura means passion, confidence, and enough energy to power a small city. 

These people love hard, fight harder, and text back in all caps. 

Dating one is thrilling at first, but they can be a lot. 

They want fireworks, not candlelight. 

If you love adventure, buckle up. 

If you prefer peace, run.

Red aura people don’t do casual. 

They dive in headfirst, full of big gestures and intense eye contact. 

They’ll whisk you away for a spontaneous weekend trip, then start a dramatic argument about where to eat. 

If you like passion, it’s a dream. 

If you hate drama, it’s a headache. 

They also hold grudges. 

If you ghost a red aura, they’ll remember it forever.

Orange Aura: The Flirt Who Can’t Commit

People with an orange aura are fun, wild, and charming. 

They thrive on excitement. 

They also vanish when things get too serious. 

And they love the chase more than the relationship. 

They’ll say they “aren’t ready” but show up in your DMs six months later. 

If you date one, enjoy the ride… but don’t expect a roadmap.

Orange auras crave newness. 

They’re the ones who get really into a hobby for a month, then abandon it forever. 

That’s how they are with relationships, too. 

They adore the beginning: the butterflies, the thrill, the mystery. 

Once things settle, they start looking for their next adventure. 

If they stay, they’re in love. 

But if they start getting distant, you might as well say goodbye now.

Yellow Aura: The Human Golden Retriever

A yellow aura means sunshine, optimism, and a weird obsession with personal growth. 

These people are happy, loyal, and always encouraging you to “manifest your best life.” 

Dating one is like dating a walking TED Talk. 

They believe in you more than you believe in yourself. 

They’ll send you motivational quotes at 7 AM. It’s sweet, but also… too early.

Yellow auras bring positivity, but they need positivity too. 

They don’t handle negativity well. 

If you complain too much or bring bad vibes, they will distance themselves, fast. 

They love laughter, deep talks, and grand adventures, but they also have a serious side. 

If you support their big dreams and actually listen to their endless ideas, they’ll love you forever.

Green Aura: The Healer Who Needs Healing

A green aura means kindness, empathy, and a tendency to date broken people. 

Green aura folks want to fix you. 

They will sit through your emotional baggage like it’s their job. 

The problem? 

They attract human black holes, people who take but never give. 

If you have a green aura, set some boundaries. 

You’re not a free therapy service.

Dating a green aura is like having a built-in life coach. 

They’ll remind you to drink water, ask about your mental health, and genuinely care. 

They love deep conversations, stability, and feeling emotionally safe. 

But they can also lose themselves in relationships. 

If they start prioritizing your needs over theirs, trouble is coming.

Blue Aura: The Emotional Sponge

A blue aura means deep feelings, deep thoughts, and a collection of old love letters. 

These people feel everything. 

They write poetry. 

They cry during commercials. 

If you date a blue aura, prepare for deep conversations about “what this all means.” 

Also, never forget their birthday. 

They will remember it forever.

Blue auras crave emotional connection. 

They want to understand you: your dreams, your fears, your childhood pet’s name. 

If you shut them out, they’ll notice. 

And if you hurt them? 

Expect a dramatic social media post full of vague, sad song lyrics. 

They love fully, but they also need reassurance. 

If you’re bad at communication, dating a blue aura will feel like an emotional marathon.

Purple Aura: The One Who ‘Just Knows’

A purple aura means intuition, mystery, and the ability to call out your lies before you even tell them. 

These people read energy like it’s an open book. 

They know when something’s off before you do. 

If a purple aura tells you your new fling has bad vibes, believe them. 

They probably saved you from another heartbreak.

Dating a purple aura feels magical. 

They see things differently. 

They’re spiritual, creative, and always looking for meaning. 

But they also need their space. 

Too much clinginess? 

They’ll disappear like a ghost. 

Too much skepticism? 

They’ll assume you’re not their soulmate. 

If you let them be their weird, mystical selves, they’ll love you with their whole soul.

Pink Aura: The Hopeless Romantic

A pink aura means pure love energy. 

These people believe in soulmates, love letters, and holding hands during movies. 

They send good morning texts every day. 

If you don’t respond fast enough, they will assume you hate them. 

Dating one feels like starring in a rom-com, sweet, dramatic, and full of grand gestures.

Pink auras love love. 

They want romance, loyalty, and affection. 

They’ll remember anniversaries you didn’t even know were a thing. 

If they feel unloved, they will spiral. 

They aren’t needy, they just need reassurance. 

If you want devotion, they’re perfect. If you hate emotional check-ins, good luck.

White Aura: The Enlightened One (Or So They Say)

A white aura means pure energy, deep wisdom, and a lack of interest in petty drama. 

These people either have a spiritual glow or they just haven’t been emotionally wrecked yet. 

They are peaceful, balanced, and sometimes a little too zen. 

If you argue with them, they’ll probably just meditate about it.

Dating a white aura feels like dating an enlightened guru. 

They stay calm in chaos, they forgive easily, and they hate negativity. 

But they can also be hard to relate to. 

If you thrive on gossip and drama, they will disappear. 

They crave deep, meaningful connections. 

If you can match their peaceful energy, it’s bliss. If not, it’s like dating a floating cloud.

Black Aura: The Walking Storm Cloud

A black aura isn’t their natural state, it’s what happens when negativity builds up. 

These people are drained, bitter, and full of bad vibes. 

If you meet someone with a black aura, proceed with caution. 

Either they need a serious energy cleanse, or they are the problem. 

If you dated one, congrats, you survived an emotional hurricane.

Black aura people don’t always mean harm, but they carry a lot of emotional baggage. 

Their energy feels heavy, and they unintentionally drag people down. 

If they refuse to change, run. 

But if they’re willing to heal, they can turn their aura around. 

Just don’t make it your job to fix them.

Aura colors don’t lie. 

If your love life feels like a disaster, maybe it’s time to check your energy, or at least avoid anyone with a storm cloud hovering over them.

Can You Change Your Aura Color?

Yes! Your aura isn’t permanent. 

It reflects your mindset. 

Bad energy? 

Fix your habits. 

Meditate. 

Exercise. 

Stop texting your toxic ex. 

If you glow like a neon sign after one yoga session, don’t be surprised.

Aura colors shift based on emotions, lifestyle, and how much negativity you let into your life. 

If your aura has been looking a little meh lately, it’s probably time for an energy reset. 

Surround yourself with positive people. 

Eat food that makes you feel good. 

Spend less time doom-scrolling through social media. 

Auras pick up everything, including that stress spiral you go into every time you check your emails.

Certain activities can boost or shift your aura. 

Ever notice how you feel lighter after decluttering your space? 

That’s your aura breathing a sigh of relief. 

Ever feel drained after a conversation with someone who complains non-stop? 

That’s your aura absorbing their emotional trash. 

Your energy reflects what you allow into your life.

Colors also change based on personal growth. 

If you used to be a walking stress ball but now prioritize self-care, your aura will brighten. 

If you were once a hopeless romantic but became more independent, your pink aura might fade into a balanced white. 

Growth isn’t just emotional, it’s energetic.

One of the fastest ways to change your aura color is through intention. 

Visualization exercises, affirmations, and even wearing certain colors can shift your energy. 

Some people swear by aura-cleansing baths, smudging with sage, or sound healing. 

Others just take a deep breath, go for a walk, and decide they’re done with bad vibes. 

The method doesn’t matter as much as the mindset.

The most important thing? 

Be aware of what drains you. 

If you constantly feel exhausted, uninspired, or negative, your aura is waving a giant red flag. 

Listen to it. 

Change what’s weighing you down, and watch your aura transform.

Conclusion

Aura colors aren’t just a fun party trick, they reveal the energy you bring into relationships. 

Whether you’re glowing with positivity or carrying around emotional baggage, your aura affects how you connect with others. 

The good news? 

You’re not stuck with one color forever. 

With the right mindset, habits, and a little self-awareness, you can shift your energy and attract the love you deserve.

One of the best ways to improve your relationship energy? 

Better communication! 

And what better way to do that than with the Better Topics Card Game for Couples

This game is designed to help you and your partner bond, communicate better, and keep the spark alive, all while having fun. 

With repeatable questions, you can play it over and over, discovering new things about each other every time. 

No two conversations will ever be the same!

So if you’re ready to strengthen your relationship, improve your aura, and keep things playful, grab a deck of Better Topics and start playing with your partner today. 

A stronger, more connected relationship (with better vibes) is just a game night away!

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